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    Congratulating Newly Wed

    1. Narrated: Abu Hurairah
      When supplicating for the newlywed, the Prophet (ﷺ) would say:

      بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ

      Translation:
      May Allah bless you and send blessings upon you, and bring goodness between you."

      1. (SUNAN TIRMIDHI Vol #2, Hadith #1091)
      2. (SUNAN IBN MAJAH Vol #3, Hadith #1905)
      3. (SUNAN ABU DAWUD Vol #2, Hadith #2130)
      4. (MUSNAD AHMAD Hadith #8957)
      5. (AS SAHIH AL MUSNAD Hadith #1295)
      6. (SAHIH AL JAAMI Hadith #4729)
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    Meeting Wife 1st Time After Marriage

    1. PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
      When anyone of you gets a new wife, a servant, or an animal, let him take hold of the forelock and say:

      اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ خَيْرِهَا وَخَيْرِ مَا جُبِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّهَا وَشَرِّ مَا جُبِلَتْ عَلَيْهِ

      Translation:
      O Allah,
      1) I ask You for the goodness within her and the goodness that she is inclined towards, and
      2) I seek refuge with you from the evil to which she is inclined.

      1. (SUNAN IBN MAJAH Vol #3, Hadith #1918)
      2. (SUNAN IBN MAJAH Vol #3, Hadith #2252)
      3. (SUNAN ABU DAWUD Vol #2, Hadith #2160)
      4. (SUNAN NASAI AL KUBRAA Hadith #10069)
      5. (SUNAN BAIHAQI Hadith #14211-14212)
      6. (MUSTADRAK AL HAAKIM Hadith #2757)
      7. (SAHIH AL JAAMI Hadith #341)
      8. (SAHIH AL JAAMI Hadith #360)
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    Before Making Love (Every Time)

    1. PROPHET MUHAMMAD (ﷺ) said:
      If anyone of you on having sexual relations with his wife said (and he must say it before starting) 'In the name of Allah.

      اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا‏

      and if it is destined that they should have a child then, Satan will never be able to harm that offspring.

      Translation:
      O Allah! Protect us from Satan and also protect what you bestow upon us (i.e. the coming offspring) from Satan,

      1. (SAHIH BUKHARI Vol #1, Hadith #141)
      2. (SAHIH BUKHARI Vol #4, Hadith #3271)
      3. (SAHIH BUKHARI Vol #4, Hadith #3283)
      4. (SAHIH BUKHARI Vol #7, Hadith #5165)
      5. (SAHIH BUKHARI Vol #8, Hadith #6388)
      6. (SAHIH BUKHARI Vol #9, Hadith #7396)
      7. (SAHIH MUSLIM Vol #4, Hadith #3533)
      8. (SUNAN TIRMIDHI Vol #2, Hadith #1092)
      9. (SUNAN IBN MAJAH Vol #3, Hadith #1919)
      10. (SUNAN ABU DAWUD Vol #2, Hadith #2161)
      11. (SUNAN NASAI AL KUBRAA Hadith #8982)
      12. (MUSNAD AHMAD 3/278)
      13. (MUSNAD AHMAD 4/31)
      14. (MUSNAD AHMAD 4/191)
      15. (MUSNAD AHMAD 4/205)
      16. (SAHIH IBN HIBBAN Hadith #983)
      17. (SAHIH AL JAAMI Hadith #5241)
      18. (AL MUAJAM AL AWSAT LIL TABRANI 7/293)
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